So It Turns Out I’m a Mystic Sigma Woman
- Mary "Dr. Lew" Lewis, DAcCHM, LAc

- Aug 6
- 6 min read
The Feminine Archetypes & Dominant Energy Types: What They Really Mean
If you’ve been on social media lately, you’ve probably seen two powerful trends circulating with increasing frequency:
Feminine archetypes like the Mystic, Lover, Mother, and Queen
Dominance energy types like Alpha, Sigma, and Beta
At first glance, they may feel like aesthetic filters or pop psychology fads.And for some people, that’s all they are.
And for others—especially women walking paths of healing, leadership, or self-reclamation—these tools become portals.
They help us ask:
Who am I beneath the roles I was told to perform?
How do I show up when I’m not editing myself?
What power have I dimmed to stay digestible?
That’s why I decided to explore both systems.Not for a label. For a mirror.
Because knowing who you are—and how you move—creates a kind of soul clarity that no algorithm can predict.
This post is me owning my design. I’m a Mystic Sigma woman, and this is what that looks like…

🌗 Why I Use the Term Mystic Sigma (Not Sigma Mystic)
You may notice I say Mystic Sigma instead of Sigma Mystic—and that’s intentional.
In my world, who I am comes before how I move.The Mystic is my root: it’s how I connect, heal, see, and serve.The Sigma is how I navigate life: with sovereignty, silence, and presence.
This order reflects my truth—essence first, expression second.
🌱 Where Do These Systems Come From?
The idea of typing ourselves isn’t new. Humans have always sought ways to understand their essence—whether through astrology, mythology, psychology, or ritual tradition.
✨ Feminine Archetypes
Feminine archetypes root back to ancient myth and were given structure through Jungian psychology. Carl Jung was one of the first to speak about archetypes as universal patterns held within the collective unconscious. Over time, spiritual teachers, writers, and therapists expanded this idea to explore how women embody different aspects of the Divine Feminine throughout their lives.
These archetypes give language to inner realities we’ve always felt—and often had to silence. They mirror the parts of us that were labeled “too much,” “too wild,” or “too soft”—and offer a way to reclaim them with sacred clarity.
They are not personality tests.They are soul signatures.And most of us carry more than one.
🐺 Dominance Energy Types (Alpha, Sigma, etc.)
This second system emerged more recently. It was inspired by animal pack behavior and adapted into modern psychology to describe human dynamics—especially in leadership, social hierarchy, and relationships.
Originally shaped by masculine theory, this model eventually made space for women who didn’t fit into one mold of femininity or power. Sigma Females, in particular, became a name for women who don’t need a spotlight to lead, and don’t need approval to be magnetic. They hold their own frequency—quietly, sovereignly, unmistakably.
While this framework has sometimes been used to divide, it can also help women see their power outside of performance—a language for being deeply present without being performative.
🧬 Why Do They Matter?
Archetypes show us the essence we carry. Energy types reveal the pathways we tend to walk.
They are not competing systems—they are complementary mirrors.One speaks to the soul, the other to the social body.
And astrology? Astrology still plays a role—but even that’s shifting.
In 2016, NASA publicly acknowledged the discovery of a 13th zodiac sign—Ophiuchus, based on shifts in Earth’s axis and modern constellation mapping. Technically, this means the zodiac as we know it would shift—changing some sun signs altogether. (For example, by that model, I wouldn’t be an Aquarius woman—I’d be a Capricorn.)
Whether or not we adopt the new sign, this moment reminds us that self-discovery is fluid, not fixed. And it’s why frameworks like archetypes and energy dynamics feel so grounding—they focus on who you are becoming, not just when you were born.
Together, these tools offer a more complete mirror: Not who the world told you to be—And who your soul came here to remember.
🌕 How My Mystic Sigma Blend Shows Up in Real Life
This isn’t just a cute pairing of buzzwords—it’s a reflection of how I move through this life, this body, and this calling.
🔮 I am a Mystic first.
I feel before I speak.I listen between pulses, tones, and timelines.I don’t just treat symptoms—I chase patterns through generations and energy fields.Mysticism isn’t a brand I wear—it’s the frequency I carry.
🐺 And I express myself as a Sigma Woman.
I don’t need a crowd to feel powerful.I build slowly, intentionally, and outside of everyone else’s timelines.I am magnetic—and I’m not performing.I walk into rooms softly—and people feel me before I speak.
🌬️ Together, they shape my path.
The Mystic in me hears the soul.The Sigma in me protects it.
The Mystic in me speaks in symbols and sensation.The Sigma in me translates it into structure, business, and legacy.
One is my sacred blueprint.The other is how I hold it with integrity.
🌿 My Supporting Archetypes: The Sacred Shapeshift
Archetype | Energy | When She Leads |
Queen 👑 | Boundaries, structure, legacy | When I’m building systems, leading with presence, making decisions |
Sage 📚 | Teaching, wisdom, integration | When I’m guiding students, developing strategy, mentoring with clarity |
Matriarch 🌾 | Nurturing, ancestral depth | When I’m mothering, holding emotional space, protecting lineage |
Lover 💋 | Sensuality, embodiment, beauty | When I’m expressing through voice, presence, or aesthetic |
Rebel-Healer 🔥 | Truth, protection, change | When I advocate, speak truth, or challenge systems with love |
These archetypes don’t live in boxes—they live in me.And I choose which one leads depending on what the moment asks of me.
🌑 My Shadow Archetypes: When I’m Out of Alignment
Shadow | Triggered By | Reminder |
The Overgiver 🩸 | Self-neglect in service | The Mystic must also rest |
The Ice Queen 🧊 | Disappointment or emotional fatigue | The Queen is allowed to feel |
The Silent Seer 🤫 | Fear of visibility or rejection | The Sage doesn’t need permission |
I now dance with and within these shadows. I don’t chase perfection—I practice integration.Because wisdom lives in both my wounds and my light.
The horns keep my halo straight.Because I am both the softest touch and the sharpest edge.
🔮 I am a Mystic Sigma woman. I move in silence, and speak when it’s sacred. I protect my knowing. And I return to myself again and again.
🎨 My Energetic Color Codes: Dressing the Frequency
Archetype | Color Palette | Vibe |
Mystic Flow 🔮 | Indigo, wine, violet, gold | Ceremonial, intuitive, ethereal |
Queen Mode 👑 | Emerald, maroon, black + gold | Executive, commanding, rich |
Lover 💋 | Rose, cinnamon, deep red | Sensual, present, magnetic |
Matriarch 🌾 | Clay, cream, forest green | Grounded, nurturing, wise |
Rebel 🔥 | Copper, charcoal, flame orange | Fierce, clear, protective |
Dandy 🎩 | Oxblood, crisp white, sapphire | Genderless elegance, charm with edge |
I don’t dress for compliments. I dress for alignment.My closet isn’t just curated—it’s consecrated.When I open it, I’m not asking “what looks good?”I’m asking, “Who needs to lead today?”
🕯 Rituals for Staying Aligned
Pulse listening to tune in, not just treat
Salt + herbal baths to release spiritual debris
Fire + water Sundays to burn, cleanse, and crown
Style as spellwork to move through archetypes with presence
🗣️ Signature Affirmations
“I remember what the world forgets. I walk in sacred rhythm.”“My boundaries are my crown.”“I transmute silence into wisdom. My presence is the portal.”“Pleasure is holy. My softness is power.”“I mother legacies, not just people.”“The horns keep my halo straight.”
🪞 Closing Reflection: What’s Your Blend?
This piece is about more than just me.It was a remembering.A mirror.An invitation for you to stop performing and start honoring the woman you already are.
Because you're more than your crown, Queen.You’re a cycle, a current, a constellation of contradictions that were never meant to be tamed.
Maybe your leadership isn’t loud.Maybe your sensuality isn’t public.Maybe your power isn’t new—it’s ancestral.
Why should you reshape your truth to fit the mold of someone else's archetype?
You weren’t made to conform—you were made to clarify.
Maybe you're:
A Lover Alpha who heals through presence and pleasure
A Mother Beta who carries generations in her laughter
A Siren Sage who seduces with silence and teaches with fire
A Dandy Mystic who commands attention with elegance, not effort
Or maybe you’re something the world hasn’t named yet—and that’s sacred, too.
You are not too much.You are not not enough.You are a frequency.
You were never meant to fit in a box—You were meant to become a language.
🌿 Until next time, may you trust your rhythm, study your shadows, and crown yourself daily.
May Your Shadows (Love) Keep You Safe & Your Qi (Light) Keep You Warm.
Love & Light Sugar!
~ Dr. Lew
🕯️ Source Note:
The archetype system draws on Jungian psychology and modern interpretations of feminine mythology.
Dominance energy types (Alpha, Sigma, etc.) stem from behavioral psychology and social theory, adapted for contemporary personality language.
NASA’s recognition of Ophiuchus in 2016 introduced the idea of a 13th zodiac sign, prompting deeper reflection on astrological frameworks.

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